WHY SEARCH FOR PERSONAL HAPPINESS?

INTRODUCTION:

·         You are responsible for your happiness.

·         People always put other's happiness first and then they suffocate.

·         There are 6 points to ponder on the question of why search for personal happiness?

 

Why I have to put myself first?


 

1.      OTHERS MAY NOT PUT YOURSELF FIRST:

·         Because there is no surety.  When you make self-sacrifice the first law of morality and of your personal conduct, you assume that those to whom you sacrifice your own interests will almost invariably sacrifice theirs for you. Quite an assumption! – with little or no evidence to confirm it.

2.      IF OTHERS MAY PUT YOU FIRST AND THEY MAY EXPLOIT YOU:

·         They may do lots of harm to you.

3.      PUTTING YOURSELF SECOND:

·         Because you need the approval of others to proceed in your life. Having a dire need for others’ approval and of needing their love so badly that you are practically willing to sell your soul to get it. Out of the dire need for love, you make yourself into a patsy, refuse to assert your own thoughts and feelings.

4.      THIS IS A FACT OF LIFE:

·         Planning your personal happiness is an enormous, challenging task that pits you against some of the most powerful forces in the universe. It would be great difficult but you need to do it.

5.      BY SEEKING YOUR PERSONAL HAPPINESS YOU ARE BECOMING PERSON OF LOVE:

·         Love your neighbor as you love yourself

6.      LET US BE HONEST: WHEN YOU PUT YOURSELF FIRST

·         Don’t pretend rather own it.

·         Let us not beat around the bush rather accept it that you want to be happy by putting yourself first.

 

Then why we do not execute our personal happiness when we decided to put ourselves first?

REASON:

v  It because of Blockage. In another word we call it as MUSTURBATION.

 

v  Musturbation means: demands, needs, commands, (must, should) ought to do, absolute expectation and so on.

 

v  It all happens because of IRRATIONAL BELIEF.

 

But we can come out says Albert Ellis through below given points

 

A.   

FOR REFERENCE:

1.       A guide to personal Happiness by Albert Ellis

 

2.       My YouTube channel: Manathidam Pesu Sunil
 
People create their own life

·         You are responsible for your life.

B.     You can change negative blocks:

·         Power to change

C.    You have the power

·         Have the power to overcome

 

TO CONCLUDE: We need to be conscious of two areas, they are;


 
   Choose your happiness...
1. Our happiness should not harm others.

2. Our happiness should be genuine

By

Mr. Sunil M.Sc.

Counsellor and Skill Trainer





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